Tuesday, 17 March 2015

Introspection


The most common causes of early age heart attacks and the early age depression are loneliness that eats the young ones from inside like a termite. Apart from loneliness the next biggest cause is the fear of separation that pushes a person into a labyrinth and its difficult for him/her to sort it out without taking some wrong restless steps.

At such a point in life, one should look inside of ourselves. Are those restless steps worth it? Are those restless steps going to take away the loneliness completely or are they going to give back your love or someone you are afraid to lose?
It's just a little bit of introspection that is required from our end. 

When you are alone and you are feeling down just think about your heart. It is all alone but yet it is the life to your veins, to your body and hence you. When you are alone, think about your heart, what if it stops pumping blood to your veins on feeling down. No it does not. It accepts its loneliness for the responsibilities it is having and not even for a second can it take rest and give the reason of feeling low or lonely. So can you, even you can accept the loneliness of life. Every person in this world is lonely in some or the other way. The person who seems very happy to us from the outside might be the most lonely and the saddest of all. It's all about how we perceive loneliness and the people suffering from it.
Every person that is alive has some responsibilities and some roles to play in this drama that is called life. For those responsibilities, one has to keep going, keep ourselves composed so that we fulfil the responsibilities we have.

When you are sad thinking about separation from your love, just think about your eyes. They are together but yet they can never meet. Still they are working together to give you a good and perfect vision. Still they are together and happy because though they cannot meet yet they have a sort of perfect understanding to walk together, sleep together sharing a wonderful chemistry. May be the one you are getting separated from is not the one you are meant to be with. May be this one to walk with you for your whole life, be with you in the journey, share a hidden chemistry yet never be one. But you can't lose hope because further down the road you will meet someone, that if you are the lower lip, he/she would be you upper lip and from that point, you will be together sharing all the syllables of life and all the rhythms. Hence forth the drought won't be faced alone but you have to keep the journey going for that to come. Because if you stop at the eye how would you reach to the lip.


All the learning's are within you, what is needed is to look inside, introspect and learn. Everything around you, inside you tries to teach something. The things that are learnt on our own are the best lessons that would never be forgotten. Sometimes we need to be hard on ourselves because of some harsh learning's that are necessary for us but we repel to learn.